Wednesday, April 09, 2008

Get the things you want!!!

There is an effective method that you could use to get people to subconsciously and voluntary agreeable to render assistance to you. Here’s an example: For instance, you wish to borrow 100 dollars from someone whom you know of but not close though. How do you go about doing it? If you start by asking the person to lend you the amount you need say 100 dollars chances is that he or she will turn you down.

Lets consider another different scenario. Instead of asking the person to lend you the amount you need (100 dollars), ask instead say 1000 thousand dollars. You might probably get the same negative response.
Tell the person you desperately needed the money and instead of the 1000 dollars that he or she could not afford, ask for 100 dollars instead. I bet he or she will more readily agreeable to lend you the reduce amount, the amount which you need in the 1st place!

Women sometimes wittingly or unwittingly apply this technique to their advantage. For instance a woman may bring the husband to see a very expensive sofa set and tell him how much she desire to acquire that expensive beautiful item. Later she brings him to a slightly cheaper sofa set, beautiful and expensive albeit much cheaper than the initial sofa set, you bet the husband will agree to get his wallet out to pay for it.

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