Saturday, June 19, 2010

Skip The Stress And Create A Safe Emotional Haven

While being considered by some people as a little thing, letting go of emotional stress can help make a difference. After all if it really was such a small matter, wouldn't it make more sense to completely release it?

Classifying and identifying what kind of emotional stresses are there, are the first key towards stress relief. Other people may impose on us some of it by their acts, and even we may charge some of it on others, like family, friends and colleagues.

The ways emotional stress can manifest is various. Some people may worry about their appearance. Some people may worry about how well the affinity with their partner still is. Others may find it hard to make a decision. While trying to match up with other people's anticipations might also contribute to lift up our stress.

Ultimately, arguments lead to further emotional stress as we can become resentful or experience guilty feelings for causing the arguments; and the worst case scenario for emotional stress is the breakup of a marriage and the resulting stresses of the divorce procedure - custody battles, money woes and bitterness to someone who we once dearly loved.

We do not need to wait until it is too late to practice counter stress methods. After all, the most important thing in relationships, while harmony last or after breaking up is to have a clear and respectful contact. Following the 'Love Thy Neighbor as Thyself' rule, minimizes the possibility that misunderstandings and vice intentions will result in explosive emotional harassment, as well as promote love, friendship and peace.

A big relief can be achieved by understanding deeply the other party's point of view. You can even check what results you get with your emotional stress when you search for the common ground focus on what is the most important thing for you or yet by coming clean on your own mistakes. Many conflicts go to an emotional downhill by hanging to past events, attaching to wrong priorities and serving one's greed.

A trusted and close partner can ease up life. Seeking a consolidate and supportive friend is not only a human natural drive but also can provide us with a safe haven from our flurry emotions in life's turmoil. Little gestures of clear and honest communication can go a long way in releasing emotional stress. And after all, we don't usually remember what other people said but how they made us feel. Don't we?

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